That's because these guys were willingly fucking their shit up. He's pretty sure you weren't exactly a willing participant. Or at least he hopes not. Although your reaction made him pretty sure that whatever happened wasn't exactly something you took pride in.

"As nice as it's gonna get in a place like this. Although I might or might not have to cut this a little short. I apparently got put into a blind date drawing and I'm looking for whoever matches this here symbol." He points at the symbol pinned to his jacket. "Apparently I'm doing a real shit of a job finding them though."